What Your Image Will Do For You

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You cannot develop a personality with physics alone, the rest of life must be worked in. Richard Feynman

I’ve only ever been to the United States once in my life – that was towards the end of 1988 and I was 21 years of age.

I must admit, I loved it.

There was a group of us friends, four of us, and we first stayed in Orlando for one week and then Miami for the next.

Orlando was a nice place where you couldn’t find a speck of dirt in the streets if you went looking for it.

In fact, I did go looking, just to see if I could find at least a sweet wrapper or cigarette butt.

Nothing.

Not finding a cigaretter butt was no surprise as there was no smoking allowed in public as far as I could see.

I also visited Sea World and watched the dolphins swim, dive and jump around.

That was before they thanked us for the fish and left for good (If you’re puzzled about that one watch Hitchhiker’s Guide To The Galaxy).

Orlando was generally peaceful at night…

Except for the night I decided to take a walk to the shop across the road from the hotel.

On the way back a police car pulled up, a woman officer got out, hand on holster and told me to take my hands out of my pockets (hey, I was relaxed and out on a stroll).

I did as told (I wasn’t about to argue with a police officer – especially one with a gun).

She asked me who I was and what I was doing.

I told her I was a tourist and was staying at the hotel across the road and showed her my keys.

After she relaxed, she told me not to be fooled by the perceived peace of the place and that anyone could pull up to me, shoot me and walk off.

That was nice… not!

That certainly left a bitter taste in my mouth about Orlando.

Shattered any illusions I had.

Miami was (also?) nice, except for the time we accidentally drove downtown and realised the gang culture was for real.

We got out of their pronto.

There was the time we visited the Grand Bahamas for a day.

If you’ve never been to the Bahamas I highly recommend it… or at least I do if it’s still the same.

The ocean was clear.

I mean literally – if there were any fishes you would be able to see them right down to the bottom.

What was intriguing about that day, however, was when we got back to Miami.

I was carrying a case with the video equipment one of the other lads had – he had his hands full with other things.

Now, picture this – I’m Asian (Bangladeshi), I was a pretty muscular guy, had on a T-shirt with the sleeves cut off (hey I was young and it was HOT).

I also had a straw hat and a deep sun tan… and maybe a straw in my mouth.

(Picture a stereo-typical Cuban drug baron’s bodyguard – yep, you get the picture.)

Now, I hadn’t noticed, but Miami vice just happened to be there (the real dudes, not from TV).

One of the guys with me told me afterward that one of these had motioned toward me.

My three companions had gone ahead, bags in hand, but I was stopped.

They had me open up the case and, after searching it thoroughly and not being able to find the drugs they were obviously looking for, sent me on my way.

You had to be there, as they say, to witness the drama.

Unless you have a vivid imagination, of course.

Amazing, isn’t it, how we can be perceived based on the way we dress and the way our bodies look (would I have been stopped if I was a fat stodgy looking guy?  Who knows).

And how about the guys in downtown Miami?

Are they really how they’re portrayed in the movies.

Don’t hold this against me, but I’m inclined to believe they are.

You see, society labels us in certain ways based on how we look and how we behave.

Sometimes society gets it right (downtown Miami) and sometimes not (me dressed like a Cuban hitman with a high-powered rifle in a brief case).

What do you suppose would be people’s impression of an advert on a billboard, or a TV commercial, or a print copy in a newspaper, if there’s gunman staring straight out at you, or a bikini-clad woman simply smiling?

It would really depend on what it is you’re selling and what the image is you’re trying to portray.

You could get it right and rake in the dosh.

You could fool people by dressing up a wolf in a sheep’s clothing, in which case you’ll have a lot to answer for, from both your customers and the law.

You could get it wrong and you’ll have wasted your money and your time.

What can you do to ensure you get it right?

You could hire the right people and pay them what they want, which could be a load of cash.

Or, you could learn how to do it yourself.

The choice, as the man said, is yours.

Best,
Rezbi

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  • rezbi
    Tim,


    That's not the picture I meant to paint, not at all.



    I just meant that, despite what a place or a even a product might be like for real, our experiences, or the outward image of a a place or product, can dictate what we think about them overall.



    I didn't mean that's how I felt, though.



    I'm not so naive as to think an entire country, especially one as big as the United States, is the same all over.



    In fact, as I said, right at the beginning, I loved the trip depite my experiences.



    Although I may from time to time joke about Americans (and who outside the US doesn't?) that's all it is - a joke.



    I wouldn't dispose of a whole bag of apples if one is bad so why would I judge an entire country on the two or three bad experiences I had in a two weeks period?



    That would be dismissing the fact that I had a great time the rest of my stay.
  • rezbi
    Tim,


    Wow!



    That's not the picture I meant to paint, not at all.



    I just meant that, despite what a place or a even a product might be like for real, our experiences, or the outward image of a a place or product, can dictate what we think about them overall.



    I didn't mean that's how I felt, though.



    I'm not so naive as to think an entire country, especially one as big as the United States, is the same all over.



    In fact, as I said, right at the beginning, I loved the trip depite my experiences.



    Although I may from time to time joke about Americans (and who outside the US doesn't?) that's all it is - a joke.



    I wouldn't dispose of a whole bag of apples if one is bad so why would I judge an entire country on the two or three bad experiences I had in a two weeks period?



    That would be dismissing the fact that I had a great time the rest of my stay.
  • rezbi
    Tim,

    That's not the picture I meant to paint, not at all.

    I just meant that, despite what a place or a even a product might be like for real, our experiences, or the outward image of a a place or product, can dictate what we think about them overall.

    I didn't mean that's how I felt, though.

    I'm not so naive as to think an entire country, especially one as big as the United States, is the same all over.

    In fact, as I said, right at the beginning, I loved the trip depite my experiences.

    Although I may from time to time joke about Americans (and who outside the US doesn't?) that's all it is - a joke.

    I wouldn't dispose of a whole bag of apples if one is bad so why would I judge an entire country on the two or three bad experiences I had in a two weeks period?

    That would be dismissing the fact that I had a great time the rest of my stay.
  • Tim
    Oh, I just realized that I may have painted a wrong picture that "guns are everywhere" in the USA. That's not what I intended, and it absolutely is not true. That's what the stupid media portray. I have quite a few international friends here in the US (I live on the West Coast; most of them are from Asia) -- and they have consistently remarked that the picture the media portrayed is not at all what their experience has been.


    Which is to say, they have had wonderful experiences with very friendly people -- and never encountered any criminals, because they *did not go to bad areas*.



    Please show the decency to not paint with such broad strokes. I've traveled around the world, and I've learned that it's stupid to make up my mind about a country based on a couple bad experiences. (I suspect you would be rather upset if I talked trash about your home country, based on a select few bad experiences.)



    There are friendly people everywhere, and --sadly-- bad people everywhere too. It's too bad that you unwisely went to Big City "tourist" places and missed out on the best the US can offer.
  • Tim
    As a US citizen who frankly has a LOT of gripes with his country, I will tell you that I am sadly not surprised at your awful experience. You picked some of the absolute WORST places in the USA to visit. Of course, how could you have known? The places you went are in Florida on the East Coast, and that's typically where people from Europe will go... because they are big well known "tourist" cities, and foreigners for some reason seem to be afraid to go into less-populated and "less well known" areas of the USA.


    Your experience is NOT typical. Not at all. It's the experience of a naive tourist who went to some of the bad parts of the USA, and thinks that's what it's like everywhere. (I say that with a friendly and sad tone of voice.)



    But you're very, very wrong.



    I'm sure you won't believe it, but if you visit towns in the Mountain West states -- where guns are far more common with law-abiding citizens, who don't put up with gang criminals (no they are not vigilantes having shoot-outs) -- you would have a far nicer experience.



    I've lived my life away from the biggest cities (but I've spent plenty of time in them for work). There is no way I would want to live in a huge city ANYWHERE, not just the US.



    It's understandable, but pitiable, that you've allowed one terrible experience to cause you to miss out on the wonderful parts of the USA. If you visit the National Parks in the western states you will see amazing natural splendour, and meet many, many, very friendly strangers -- who would go out of their way to help and defend you from any criminal... unlike in the big cities. (Oh, if you should ever come out, do skip the Grand Canyon -- which, incidentally, is where tourists all seem to want to go. The other western national parks are far more beautiful.)



    But, I suppose you won't give the USA a second chance, just because you chose (more likely, were guided) rather poorly for your tourist destinations. Your loss, sad to say.
  • Tim
    Oh, I just realized that I may have painted a wrong picture that "guns are everywhere" in the USA. That's not what I intended, and it absolutely is not true. That's what the stupid media portray. I have quite a few international friends here in the US (I live on the West Coast; most of them are from Asia) -- and they have consistently remarked that the picture the media portrayed is not at all what their experience has been.

    Which is to say, they have had wonderful experiences with very friendly people -- and never encountered any criminals, because they *did not go to bad areas*.

    Please show the decency to not paint with such broad strokes. I've traveled around the world, and I've learned that it's stupid to make up my mind about a country based on a couple bad experiences. (I suspect you would be rather upset if I talked trash about your home country, based on a select few bad experiences.)

    There are friendly people everywhere, and --sadly-- bad people everywhere too. It's too bad that you unwisely went to Big City "tourist" places and missed out on the best the US can offer.
  • Tim
    As a US citizen who frankly has a LOT of gripes with his country, I will tell you that I am sadly not surprised at your awful experience. You picked some of the absolute WORST places in the USA to visit. Of course, how could you have known? The places you went are in Florida on the East Coast, and that's typically where people from Europe will go... because they are big well known "tourist" cities, and foreigners for some reason seem to be afraid to go into less-populated and "less well known" areas of the USA.

    Your experience is NOT typical. Not at all. It's the experience of a naive tourist who went to some of the bad parts of the USA, and thinks that's what it's like everywhere. (I say that with a friendly and sad tone of voice.)

    But you're very, very wrong.

    I'm sure you won't believe it, but if you visit towns in the Mountain West states -- where guns are far more common with law-abiding citizens, who don't put up with gang criminals (no they are not vigilantes having shoot-outs) -- you would have a far nicer experience.

    I've lived my life away from the biggest cities (but I've spent plenty of time in them for work). There is no way I would want to live in a huge city ANYWHERE, not just the US.

    It's understandable, but pitiable, that you've allowed one terrible experience to cause you to miss out on the wonderful parts of the USA. If you visit the National Parks in the western states you will see amazing natural splendour, and meet many, many, very friendly strangers -- who would go out of their way to help and defend you from any criminal... unlike in the big cities. (Oh, if you should ever come out, do skip the Grand Canyon -- which, incidentally, is where tourists all seem to want to go. The other western national parks are far more beautiful.)

    But, I suppose you won't give the USA a second chance, just because you chose (more likely, were guided) rather poorly for your tourist destinations. Your loss, sad to say.
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